Citizens!

Citizens!

Coming out of USCIS office – we went in two Americans and two Guineans, and came out four Americans!

We did it! International adoption for Americans living abroad is no joke, people. But it is done! We had our first homestudy in 2013. The boys were born in 2014. We were matched with them in 2016. We went to Guinea to get them and they legally became our sons in 2018. And now, in 2020, they are finally American citizens and this process is complete! AND their full names are spelled correctly on their certificates of citizenship, can you believe it? We did not do this alone — we have had a whole army of you along with us, praying and helping us in a million ways throughout the whole long process. Thank you and woo hoooooo! And thank you, Jesus!!! <3

Prayers and Praises

Prayers and Praises

We appreciate your continued prayers. Here’s what’s happening with us. 

  • Praise God for his protection as the passenger side tie rod of our vehicle snapped suddenly on Sunday. Thankfully, Corey was in town and only going about 20 mph when it happened – it could have been much worse if they had been moving at a higher speed. He and our son Jacob and two Senegalese teachers from the Kaffrine Christian school were all in the car when it happened and no one was hurt. Pray for our vehicle to be repaired soon and well; we have been without a car since Sunday, making do with just Corey’s motorcycle to take the boys to preschool, etc. which is not ideal. 
  • The community garden project idea that Corey was investigating is not going to happen. Pray for wisdom and God’s leading as we pursue another idea for a project to help in this village.
  • Praise God that most times when Corey visits the village, he ends up doing a Bible study with someone, often with someone who has never read any of the Bible before! Pray for those he is following up with, that they would want to read more and that the Holy Spirit would open their eyes and give them understanding and faith.
  • Praise God for several donations to the Kaffrine Scholarship Project. The Scholarship account had gotten down to essentially $0 and school started up again this month so this is a big praise! Pray for God to bless and work in the lives of each of the Scholarship students.
  • We are still waiting to hear from USCIS – pray for them to give us an appointment for our boys’ citizenship interview before the boys’ visas expire at the end of February.
  • Pray for wisdom and grace to parent all of our kids well. Pray for our three girls at boarding school, and for the two oldest (Emma and Molly) as they make decisions about college during the next two years. Pray for patience with our boys and good connection with them.
  • Pray that we will not be discouraged. We’re saying goodbye to our teammates the Gallaghers as they leave Kaffrine next week heading for a new role in the US. Also we were surprised to learn that our Senegalese pastor here in Kaffrine has been relocated by his denomination. He has been a friend to us and an invaluable ministry partner here in Kaffrine for the last nine years so this is a sad loss for us. He and his family moved yesterday. Pray for the new pastor and the new school director who will be sent out by the denomination. 

Thanks for praying with us for the Kingdom of Light to advance here!

Sometimes God’s answer is ‘no’

Sometimes God’s answer is ‘no’

The meeting that we had tried to schedule for yesterday afternoon did not happen. Katie and the boys and I went to the village in the afternoon and greeted at the village chief’s family’s house. Then Katie and the boys stayed there chatting and I went to try to connect with the six men with whom I was hoping to meet. I was able to see all but one. One man was quite angry and yelled at me a few times. Another of the men told me that an “older brother” among them had come to visit him to get them all in line with his view that no one should even talk about the garden project we were considering. I suspected we would not be able to have any kind of meeting but went and waited at the meeting place anyway from around 5 to 6:30. I had some other good conversations with others who were just hanging out there, but did not get to talk about the project with the group of six men. At this point there is nothing to do but drop the project. 

I’m not disappointed we aren’t able to do this project – there are some legitimate reasons not to do it that I can think of – but I am disappointed that we couldn’t talk about it. I had wanted to get together and talk about the issues, and see what solutions they could come up with, but even that was too much.

What I have been thinking about as I’ve been talking with these men is that there are a lot of broken relationships and broken hearts in these villages. They do project a sense of peace and of tranquility, but there’s a lot hiding under the surface. The broken pieces of those hearts can be jagged and hurt others as they get close to them. These folks need a way to be able to forgive each other for past hurts and have a new start. As we continue to visit this village, our prayer is that God will let us help them understand how they can both have and give forgiveness through Jesus. 

Poking a hornets’ nest?

Poking a hornets’ nest?

With our teammates’ departure, the medical surveying and health education visits to each household in the village were no longer possible, so Corey started investigating other ways we can help the community. For several months, we were working towards a water project, but in the end the Senegalese government rejected our consultant’s suggestion to change to an electric pump from the failing diesel powered one, and ended up providing a new diesel pump, which did solve the problem of frequent water cuts. As we were considering with the chief what we could do next, he suggested we restart a community garden project that folded over a decade ago.

We do not normally try to resurrect other organizations’ failed projects, and were wary of getting involved in this one. At the same time we saw some real possibilities – much of the infrastructure is still there – so we started to consider it. Corey has taken a lot of time over several weeks discussing with people in the village what happened and found that there were many factors that contributed to the original garden project’s failure, including the main water counter to the garden malfunctioning (marking too much water which resulted in huge unpayable bills for the farmers) and the water tower falling over during the first year of the project due to faulty construction.

But in addition to the physical problems, there were also interpersonal problems within the village related to this project. As Corey spent time talking to the different people involved, he found that there are a lot of broken relationships and residual hurt and anger over things that were said and done during the original project. He has asked a lot of questions and explained that we are only interested in helping with a new community garden project if we can do it in a way that brings blessing and increased peace for all members of the village. He refers often to the four kinds of peace that Adam and Eve experienced in the Garden of Eden: 1) peace with God, 2) peace with each other, 3) peace with the land, and 4) internal peace rooted in knowing their identity and purpose. A community garden project that only brings peace, or increased blessing, in one area (for example, through increased vegetable production from the land) but which brings discord in the other areas can not be considered a success! Corey has been visiting all the stakeholders asking if there is a way to do this project that would bring blessing in all four areas.

Yesterday he was talking to five or six villagers who farmed the land before the project was organized and things got really “hot” (as they say in Wolof) with lots of angry yelling and arguing. Some men were angry at Corey and yelled at him, accusing him of favoritism – the original project was rife with divisions along family lines that go back to previous feuds. Others said things like, “If this project happens, I won’t let anyone in my household eat the produce of the garden!” and “I am going to die fighting about this!”

It is kind of crazy that wanting to help the chief rebuild a fenced enclosure for a garden to bless the whole village could incite such strong negative emotions!

We share all of this to ask you to pray with us. Pray specifically for the meeting Corey wants to have with those landowners on Friday afternoon (4 October) at 5 p.m. GMT (that’s 1 p.m. EST). Some of the men have already said they are going to boycott the meeting.

Pray for the Lord to give Corey wisdom and clear guidance. Is this an opportunity for God to show His power to heal relationships and to teach about forgiveness? Or should we abandon this idea, despite the chief’s continued prioritizing of this project? Is there another type of project we could do to help? Does the Lord even want us to keep trying to work in this village at all? Pray for God to answer these questions and for us to be faithful to obey His directives, even if we don’t like the answers or if it isn’t easy.

Kids’ Camp

Kids’ Camp

At least twenty kids were still crowded around us, clamoring to be chosen, but there were only six name tags left. We had already gone beyond the number of kids we had planned for (84) and the name tags represented the absolute limit we could accommodate (96). What a difficult choice! But it is remarkable that in this context more than 100 kids would be excited about attending a two-day camp about Easter!

Camp photo! The kids are all wearing their red camp shirts that read “Jesus is the lamb of God”

Saturday and Easter Sunday were chock full of noise and activity: boisterous children chattering and laughing, kicking up dust playing games and popping balloons, music and passionate teaching coming over the loudspeakers… All the games, teaching, and small groups were led by our Senegalese brothers in both Wolof and Sereer. At mealtimes, everyone gathered around big common bowls. In the evening, Corey projected the section of the Wolof film that shows how Jesus let himself be killed on a cross and then came back to life, as he had predicted. For many of the kids this powerful true story was new!

Breakout sessions after each big group time provided time to process the messages

I got to help with this year’s craft. The kids learned quilling (Google it if you’ve never heard of it! I learned something new and had fun with this!) and made lambs to remind them of the camp theme, which was from John 1:29 “Jesus is the lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world.” As each group came into the classroom I asked why they came to camp. They all quickly answered, “To have fun!” Then I asked what holiday it is today, and it took each group a while before someone would say tentatively, “Easter?” But when I asked, “And what is Easter about?” I was met with silence. I trust that by the end of the two days of camp, they learned the answer to this question!

Molly , Katie, and Amanda helping the kids with the craft

To be honest, when we got back from our whirlwind trip to the US a few weeks ago, I was tired and not sure that we should have an Easter camp this year. But our Senegalese brothers in Christ expressed such a strong belief in the significance of this event that we decided to go forward. It was hard work and there were some frustrating moments (like when it got dark and we realized none of the exterior lights worked!). Our own boys had fevers the whole time so we were taking turns running back and forth between taking care of them at home and working at the camp.

Big group Bible teaching time

Now that it is over, we are completely exhausted. But three young men who grew up here and attended these camps every year when they were little and who are now strong believers and working in other parts of Senegal all traveled back to Kaffrine to help out at the camp this weekend. Seeing them bear witness to the transformation Jesus can bring reassured me that it is worth the effort! I thank the Lord for our Senegalese brothers in Christ who urge us on and who work tirelessly to bring the Good News about Jesus’ resurrection to those who have not yet heard!