Prayer answered – a place to stay!

Prayer answered – a place to stay!

 Thank you all for praying for us! God has answered once again so graciously. The Lord has provided a place for us to live during our upcoming home assignment in the US! Over the weekend, we were contacted by a couple who loves Jesus to ask if our family would like to live in their furnished house for the whole year. Of course, we did not hesitate to accept their kind offer – this is such a huge answer to prayer! And we will be within walking distance of our home church, the Barn! We are overwhelmed with gratitude and relief! Our Father, and His people, are so generous!

We are getting more and more excited to be “home” in Connecticut. Our three girls haven’t been in America since the summer of 2016 and our boys have only had brief winter visits, so this is a huge deal for all of us. We are looking forward to so many things – especially to seeing our friends and family we haven’t seen in so long! This five-year term has at times felt a bit like slogging through a swamp – a mud marathon – but we can now see the finish line approaching! Thanks for praying us through!

Our Sons, Almost Americans!

Our Sons, Almost Americans!

We have seen a great deal of change in our boys, Will and Jake, since we brought them home a year and a half ago. They came to us speaking only French and now they speak mostly English (with an impressive vocabulary!), along with some Wolof and French. They have both moved about 20% higher on the height and weight charts for their age. For example, when Will came to us he measured in the 3rd percentile for his age; now he is in the 30th percentile for height! At first, Jake would only eat a few familiar foods: rice, bread, eggs, bananas. Almost everything else he put in his mouth, he would chew and then take back out. He no longer does this! Both boys now enjoy a wide variety of foods. One of their favorites is peanut butter and jelly sandwiches — obviously they are ready to officially become American citizens!

Many of you have been praying for us since we started this adoption process in 2013. We never imagined it would take us this long to get this point! We had hoped our trip to the US in March 2019 would have resulted in the boys receiving their citizenship, but due to a State Department rule change and poor communication between US Citizenship & Immigration Services (USCIS) and the US Embassy in Dakar, we are having to do this further step. But we are thankful to finally be nearing the end of this process! USCIS granted both boys an appointment for their citizenship interviews on January 27 in Hartford, CT. We have purchased plane tickets for the four of us (Corey, Katie, Will & Jake) to spend just over three weeks in Connecticut while our three girls are at boarding school. We will be in the US from January 23 to February 18.

We are overwhelmed with gratitude for how the Lord has already provided so much of what we need for this trip. Friends have generously covered the cost of our transportation from Kaffrine to Simsbury, including the plane tickets. Isn’t that amazing and wonderful!? Other friends have volunteered to let us stay with them. (We sincerely hope that they don’t regret this later!) And someone else has offered us the use of their vehicle. These sacrificial gifts have been such an encouragement to us during this stressful time and have reassured us that the Lord, and His people, love us and are close by with a helping hand.

We would love to be able to borrow a second car for when our out-of-town family comes to see us and so that Corey and I can use our time more efficiently. And we are looking to borrow three car seats as well (a booster seat for Jake, a 5-point harness car seat for Will, and a 5-point harness car seat for our 2-year old nephew just for a week). If you have a car or a car seat we can borrow, let me know via email or Facebook messenger. We will also need to borrow winter coats, boots, snow pants, and clothes for the boys. As a side note, if you have boys’ summer clothing sizes 5 – 8 in good shape that your sons have outgrown, we will happily take them back to Senegal with us for Will and Jake.

Thank you, friends! Looking forward to seeing some of you soon!

Disappointing adoption news

Disappointing adoption news

We received a reply from US Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) today. Unfortunately, they did not issue Will and Jake citizenship as we had hoped, citing the fact that we do not reside in the US as the reason for this refusal. They suggested we apply for the boys’ citizenship by filing an N-600K form for each of the boys, submitting $1,170 along with each form. Then we will wait for some months to hear back from USCIS with an interview date in the US a few weeks later, necessitating another costly trip for the four of us.   

This seems like a colossal waste of time and money from our perspective. We are also concerned about the timing since the boys’ US visas in their Guinean passports are only valid for one year from the date when we entered the US with them, which was Feb. 28., and we have heard that the estimated time it takes for USCIS to process this kind of application averages 9 months. It is particularly frustrating that the US Embassy in Dakar did not put us on this path in the first place.

But while we were reading USCIS’ letter and researching the process before us, the boys were giggling and wrestling on the floor with their sisters… and I was reminded that they have been part of our family for over a year. They are not orphans living in an institution, begging for someone to hold them, play with them, give them attention… They have a mom and a dad who will fly across the world for them (again!) because we love them, and because they are our sons. This is what parents do. Our heavenly Father has done a lot more for us! So, we are grateful, and we press on.

Pray with us:

  • for the peace of the Lord to rule in our hearts and minds
  • for His provision of the time and money needed for this process
  • for this process to go quickly enough that the boys’ citizenship papers are issued before their visas expire at the end of February, or wisdom about applying for another visa if it isn’t going to happen in time. This is the part we have a lot of questions about…
  • for stamina to persevere through the red tape, and joy despite this circumstance
  • that this process will be completely 100% over and finished forever soon!
Family photo at our annual SIM Spiritual Life Conference – July 2019 on the coast of Senegal (about a three-hour drive from where we live)
New Scholarship student goes from not attending school at all to earning fourth place in her class!

New Scholarship student goes from not attending school at all to earning fourth place in her class!

Well done, little one! Your school career is off to a great start!

On Saturday we went to the end-of-year program at the school that our boys attended this year. After some singing, dancing and a skit, the top ten students in each grade (1st through 6th grades) were called forward to receive a prize. When I heard the name of a certain six-year-old girl called, my heart burst with joy! This first-grader had not been to school before, never having attended preschool or kindergarten. Over the summer we had talked to her father, encouraging him to put his two young daughters in the church school and letting him know that the Kaffrine Scholarship Project could pay the $12 monthly tuition as well as the registration fee and the cost of their uniforms and school supplies.  

Our SIM Kaffrine Team began this Scholarship Project in 2007 when some mature Wolof Christian leaders from another region of Senegal encouraged us to invest in the children and young people in the small Christian community here. Many families can’t afford to pay for their children to attend school, particularly a private school where the teachers don’t go on strike and the students can get a good education. So we launched this project which has helped over two dozen young people at different points in their education, from preschool all the way to university or job training programs. We have seen the short-term impact already, and now that the project has been running for twelve years, we are beginning to see glimpses of the long-term impact as students graduate, get jobs, and choose to serve the Lord as adults.  

We are so grateful to all of you who have given money towards the Scholarship Project. Our young friend who came in fourth in her class this year thanks you for the opportunity to go to school! I am praying that she will go far!

If you would like to help these young people through the Kaffrine Scholarship Project, you can give here. Your prayers and gifts make a big difference!